A podcast by Claire Myung

I'm Fine, Thanks

We all typically answer "I'm fine, thanks" when we're asked "How are you?", even during the times when we are not fine. This show challenges that by breaking down mental health therapies into simple, useful conversations anyone can easily follow. It's here to help you understand your mind, build resilience, and find the courage to actually feel okay.

80

episodes

42

book reviews

8

interviews

12+

hours

I'm Fine, Thanks podcast cover

Newest episode

Episode 79: Why does rejection hurt so much?

Social pain runs on the same circuitry as physical pain. For a species that survived in groups, being left out once meant danger, and the brain has not updated.

Listen and reflect

Every episode

Each one opens to a page with the big idea, takeaways, a practice to try tonight, and a journal prompt.

Thirteen approaches to therapy, one at a time, in plain language.

Animal-assisted therapy
TherapiesEp 13

Animal-assisted therapy

Animals offer presence without judgment. That combination calms the body faster than most words can.

7 minJan 25, 2026

Creative therapy
TherapiesEp 12

Creative therapy

Some feelings do not have words yet. Art, music, and movement give them a way out before language catches up.

6 minJan 18, 2026

Supportive therapy
TherapiesEp 11

Supportive therapy

Being genuinely heard is not the warm-up to therapy. Sometimes it is the therapy.

7 minJan 11, 2026

Family therapy
TherapiesEp 10

Family therapy

A family is a system. Change one person's move and the whole pattern shifts.

7 minJan 4, 2026

Group therapy
TherapiesEp 9

Group therapy

Hearing someone else say the thing you thought only you felt is its own kind of medicine.

7 minDec 28, 2025

Mindfulness-based cognitive therapy (MBCT)
TherapiesEp 8

Mindfulness-based cognitive therapy (MBCT)

Low mood is not the problem. The rumination that piles on top of it is. Noticing the thought as a thought interrupts the pile-on.

7 minDec 21, 2025

Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR)
TherapiesEp 7

Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR)

A memory that was never fully processed stays live in the body. EMDR helps the brain file it as past rather than present.

7 minDec 14, 2025

Acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT)
TherapiesEp 6

Acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT)

You do not have to win the argument with your mind. You can let the thought be there and still move toward what matters.

7 minNov 30, 2025

Interpersonal therapy (IPT)
TherapiesEp 5

Interpersonal therapy (IPT)

Mood and relationships move together. IPT treats low mood by working directly on the relationships around it.

6 minNov 23, 2025

Psychodynamic therapy
TherapiesEp 4

Psychodynamic therapy

Patterns formed in early relationships tend to repeat in later ones. Seeing the pattern is what gives you the freedom to choose differently.

7 minNov 7, 2025

Exposure therapy
TherapiesEp 3

Exposure therapy

Avoidance keeps fear alive. Facing a feared thing in small, planned steps teaches the nervous system that the alarm is louder than the danger.

6 minNov 5, 2025

Dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT)
TherapiesEp 2

Dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT)

Acceptance and change are not opposites. DBT teaches you to hold both at once: this is how I feel, and I can still act skillfully.

7 minOct 21, 2025

Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT)
TherapiesEp 1

Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT)

Thoughts, feelings, and behaviors are a loop. Change the thought you are running and the feeling that follows changes too.

7 minOct 12, 2025

Pulled from the show

The frameworks worth keeping

The techniques Claire returns to, written as steps with the episode and the therapist who uses each one.

All 29 frameworks
The days you answered "fine" on autopilot3 min

"I'm fine, actually"

  1. 1.Write the question: how am I, actually?
  2. 2.Answer in three sentences. The first one is allowed to be "fine."
  3. 3.The second and third are not.
If I answered "how are you?" completely honestly right now, I would say...
The podcast's founding questionEp 0
A worry that will not stop repeating8 min

Thought record

  1. 1.Situation, in one neutral line.
  2. 2.The exact thought and how strongly you believe it.
  3. 3.Evidence for. Evidence against.
  4. 4.A balanced sentence you believe more.
The thought that keeps showing up today is...
Cognitive behavioral therapyEp 1
Listening to doing

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Every episode links to the therapist whose approach fits. Sign in, and the prompt at the end of each page opens straight into your journal.

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