A podcast by Claire Myung

I'm Fine, Thanks

We all typically answer "I'm fine, thanks" when we're asked "How are you?", even during the times when we are not fine. This show challenges that by breaking down mental health therapies into simple, useful conversations anyone can easily follow. It's here to help you understand your mind, build resilience, and find the courage to actually feel okay.

80

episodes

42

book reviews

8

interviews

12+

hours

I'm Fine, Thanks podcast cover

Newest episode

Episode 79: Why does rejection hurt so much?

Social pain runs on the same circuitry as physical pain. For a species that survived in groups, being left out once meant danger, and the brain has not updated.

Listen and reflect

Every episode

Each one opens to a page with the big idea, takeaways, a practice to try tonight, and a journal prompt.

The episode that named the show: what actually sits behind "I'm fine."

Pulled from the show

The frameworks worth keeping

The techniques Claire returns to, written as steps with the episode and the therapist who uses each one.

All 29 frameworks
The days you answered "fine" on autopilot3 min

"I'm fine, actually"

  1. 1.Write the question: how am I, actually?
  2. 2.Answer in three sentences. The first one is allowed to be "fine."
  3. 3.The second and third are not.
If I answered "how are you?" completely honestly right now, I would say...
The podcast's founding questionEp 0
A worry that will not stop repeating8 min

Thought record

  1. 1.Situation, in one neutral line.
  2. 2.The exact thought and how strongly you believe it.
  3. 3.Evidence for. Evidence against.
  4. 4.A balanced sentence you believe more.
The thought that keeps showing up today is...
Cognitive behavioral therapyEp 1
Listening to doing

Take an episode into a session

Every episode links to the therapist whose approach fits. Sign in, and the prompt at the end of each page opens straight into your journal.

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New episodes appear here as they are released.