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Unwinding Anxiety by Judson Brewer
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Unwinding Anxiety

Unwinding Anxiety by Judson Brewer

Anxiety is a habit loop: trigger, worry, brief relief, repeat. You do not break it by force. You break it by getting curious enough to notice the reward is not worth it.

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About this episode

What if the way you deal with anxiety may be reinforcing it? In today's episode, let's delve into the book "Unwinding Anxiety: New Science Shows How to Break the Cycles of Worry and Fear to Heal Your Mind" by Judson Brewer, which explores why breaking the cycle of anxiety may begin with curiosity rather than control!

Key takeaways

  1. 1

    Worry feels like doing something, which is why the brain keeps choosing it.

  2. 2

    Map the loop: what triggers it, what the behavior is, what the payoff is.

  3. 3

    Curiosity is a bigger, better offer than worry; the brain will take it.

Try this tonight

Next time worry starts, ask: what am I getting out of this? Then get curious about how it feels in the body instead of fixing it.

Journal prompt

“What does worrying give me, and is it actually worth what it costs?”

Write about it

Framework from this episode

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Mapping the worry loop

Worry is a habit with a payoff. Get curious enough to see it isn't worth it.

Use it when

Worry feels productive and never stops.

  1. 1Trigger: what set the worry off?
  2. 2Behavior: what did you do? (Worry, check, scroll, plan.)
  3. 3Result: what did it get you? Be honest.
  4. 4Next time, get curious about the feeling in the body instead of the story.
  5. 5Notice: curiosity feels better than worry. Let the brain learn that.