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The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk
BooksEpisode 348 minJune 13, 2026

The Body Keeps the Score

The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk

Trauma is not just a memory; it is a body that still believes the danger is present. Healing has to involve the body, not only the story.

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About this episode

What if sometimes what looks like laziness is actually overwhelm? In this episode, let's delve into the book "The Body Keeps the Score" by Bessel Van der Kolk, which explores an important idea that emotional stress is remembered by your body!

Key takeaways

  1. 1

    What looks like laziness or defiance is often a nervous system in overwhelm.

  2. 2

    Movement, breath, rhythm, and safe relationships reset the alarm.

  3. 3

    Feeling safe in your own body is the foundation everything else stands on.

Try this tonight

When you feel shut down, move before you think: a walk, a stretch, a shake. Then check whether the thought still feels true.

Journal prompt

“What does my body do when it feels unsafe, and what helps it believe it is safe now?”

Write about it